tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post1801567043591790843..comments2024-03-28T16:09:12.437-07:00Comments on Support & Education for Adults on the Autism Spectrum: Is Your ASD Partner a Jerk – or is it a Deficit in Reciprocity?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-3166927355669599462023-11-21T12:09:51.925-08:002023-11-21T12:09:51.925-08:00This is a BIG concern... I almost ended up in the ...This is a BIG concern... I almost ended up in the hospital because I was so severely dehydrated when I got sick. He just did his routines, he had no ability to problem solve, or nurture me. It was a horror show. I am demanding he gets assessed asap. I cant risk my own death. It gets worse as they get older... Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-72049453674633015162023-03-26T10:04:48.573-07:002023-03-26T10:04:48.573-07:00He talks over me. If we’re seeing others socially ...He talks over me. If we’re seeing others socially he will respond for me when someone asks me a question. It’s as if he thinks I’m incapable of speaking. He’s brilliant and handsome but sometimes it’s like I may as well not be there until he needs some non cerebral/physical task doing. Explaining how difficult that can be for a NT gets zero response. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-46790179466221388692023-01-07T09:15:06.510-08:002023-01-07T09:15:06.510-08:00My Aspie can be the nicest thoughtful guy… can als...My Aspie can be the nicest thoughtful guy… can also be a huge Ahole.. it’s about 15% Nice guy, 85% asshole.. and he wonders why he can’t keep any friends.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-8571251137282894352022-12-18T21:30:02.461-08:002022-12-18T21:30:02.461-08:00I don’t know what happened but my aspie partner st...I don’t know what happened but my aspie partner stopped reciprocating anything at all. Very upsetting. He claims he doesn’t know he’s doing it, Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-42261843956916852622022-11-12T01:42:28.170-08:002022-11-12T01:42:28.170-08:00My partner is horrible to me when I'm illMy partner is horrible to me when I'm illAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-44304014255949306392022-07-17T14:46:58.121-07:002022-07-17T14:46:58.121-07:00My Aspie ex reciprocated for everyone else, just n...My Aspie ex reciprocated for everyone else, just not me. So, nope. Big Jerk. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com