tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post5423232541787926960..comments2024-03-28T16:09:12.437-07:00Comments on Support & Education for Adults on the Autism Spectrum: Discouraged "Neurotypical" Wife Speaks OutUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-21526490876700314122017-08-24T15:02:53.829-07:002017-08-24T15:02:53.829-07:00Erm I think Lemming was supporting her,....no ques...Erm I think Lemming was supporting her,....no questioning, just pointing out in a considerate way to help eleiviate burden. Ie. Also not agreeing with the excuse of husband given by others, as just because asd, doesn't mean can't take some responsibility and work together as a couple to bring on positive change. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10235853039618615475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-57520057282288754902017-08-22T12:57:11.059-07:002017-08-22T12:57:11.059-07:00no one said this was the worst trauma. This is sim...no one said this was the worst trauma. This is simply her experience as an NT wife. An aspie wife can go and blog about her journey to resonate with other aspie wives of aspies. But this is her journey.. Everyone is entitled to their thoughts.tivolicarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00557983187623024265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-6983537303403780772017-08-22T05:44:23.240-07:002017-08-22T05:44:23.240-07:00Two things... why describe yourself as "neuro...Two things... why describe yourself as "neurotypical" wife? These things happen to aspie wifes of aspie men too. The only difference between NT wives of aspie men and AS wives of aspie men, is everytime someone says that garbage about "they can't help it" etc, not only are they making excuses for our husbands to treat us poorly, but they are insulting who we are with their garbage stereotypes of people with autism.<br />Secondly, while it doesn't make any of the awful way he treats you okay, at least reassure yourself - it could be worse. My now-ex husband violently physically abused my daughters and I before we separated, and the things he has (and continues to do) since we separated is far worse than just the simple assaults we used to have to put up with.NotAnotherLemminghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13027624479131423027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-60719620299536319162017-08-21T23:07:53.544-07:002017-08-21T23:07:53.544-07:00This! And I am so sorry you live this too. This! And I am so sorry you live this too. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03030285496807787966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-212330848782074107.post-57451559034275224662017-08-21T21:44:47.988-07:002017-08-21T21:44:47.988-07:00I have Asphergers. About 3 monthes ago me and my w...I have Asphergers. About 3 monthes ago me and my wife started to go to neurofeedback. I needed it to understand myself and my wife's frustrations with me. My wife used it to her anxiety and OCD. After 30 sessions we started to see deference. I stoped beeing as extreme with my thoughts as I was. Now I am able to understand when I am extrim and that I should look for middle ground. I understand my emotions a bit better. I was surprised but I also become more affectionate. after her 30 sessions. she is controlling her anger and her anxiety almost gone. Stanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13327927005413405009noreply@blogger.com