To use an analogy, you may not need surgery, but you should still see your doctor periodically for check-ups. It’s no different with a love relationship that could use a check-up. Lose the stigma you have about counseling – and go. A counselor is simply an anonymous friend who can help you get your relationship on a good track. Also, a good counselor is not going to chastise you or side with your girlfriend.
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